A MEMORIAL FUND FOR A BELOVED SON SPARKS HOPE FOR ITS COMMUNITY—AND ITS DONOR.
IT TAKES A COMMUNITY

Harriet Deutsch has a long history of community-based work. She was a fundraiser and driving force behind the Schoenbaum Center and a part of the United Way, among other endeavors. “I’ve always had a passion for it,” she says. It’s a passion driven and sustained by a love of her state and community, as well as her own family.
Deutsch grew up on the west side of Charleston, and though she spends the winter months in sunny Florida, she has and always will consider Charleston to be her home. She married and brought three sons into the world, raising them with similar ideals towards their community. However, it was the tragic loss of her 29-year-old son Jerome that spurred her into a new kind of community support.
After his passing, Deutsch and her family were determined to find a way to honor her son’s memory in a manner befitting his character as they began the long journey of healing. “He was a really special guy, very compassionate, and he loved people,” she reflects. “We felt that, by doing something in his memory that would go to help other people, it would help us, too.”
“We felt that, by doing something in his memory that would go to help other people, it would help us, too.”
Having spent quite a bit of time in the hospital with their son, Deutsch and her husband saw many other families in similar situations to theirs. But instead of having a place nearby to rest and recharge, those who came from out of town—and out of state—often didn’t. The Deutschs came up with the idea of establishing a fund with the hospital for those families, but they were met with many obstacles that quickly became discouraging. So, when Stanley Loewenstein—the Foundation’s first executive director in the early to mid 80s— approached them with an offer to help establish a fund through The Greater Kanawha Valley Foundation in honor of their son, they took the chance.
The Jerome H. Deutsch Memorial Fund was established in 1984, directed towards people who needed food, shelter, medical help, and other assistance. For Deutsch, it’s all about seeing a need and finding a solution to meet it. “It truly does take a community these days. Families struggling can’t do it themselves. It’s important to give back to those who can’t. There are agencies out there that are doing a wonderful job, but the more they get, the more they can do, and the more they can help.”
And, ultimately, the fund has helped her, too. “It’s helped us as much as I hope it helps the community,” Deutsch admits. “It’s a good way for me to honor my son and members of my family that have passed—I can feel his spirit there. I feel that, by being able to have this, it eases some of that pain.”
Despite the later loss of her husband and other loved ones, she’s never had to walk her journey of giving alone. “When I go to allocate my money, I don’t just automatically do it,” she says. The Jerome H. Deutsch Memorial Fund falls under the category of a donor-advised fund, a great option for those looking to support more than one organization or program in a year. Its flexibility and freedom gives donors the opportunity to be more hands on with their giving, an approach that Deutsch values.
Deutsch gets to be directly involved in deciding where the money from the fund goes, taking the time to learn about community needs and new organizations that might need a helping hand. That’s where Foundation staff, like Chief Program Officer Stephanie Hyre, comes in—Deutsch trusts them to help guide her to where the needs are. “Stephanie has been enormously helpful to me,” she shares. “The needs change, and she shows me how to change with them. I have confidence that the Foundation is looking out for my best interest as far as what direction I want to go and who I want to help. You know it’s there in perpetuity, and you’ll always be sure that your money is well used. And I feel very fortunate that we are in a position where we can help—that’s what life is all about!”
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